transparency time Tuesday

It probably has everything to do with the way I grew up, but I feel like I am a bother to literally everyone. As I age, I move further away from the unkind words and actions of bullies and family, but the pain that birthed hesitation never left. I am genuinely fearful, at all times,… Continue reading transparency time Tuesday

how to be friends with a survivor

This post mentions sexual assault and domestic violence. Hi everyone! As always, thanks for coming back. I’m honestly just going to jump right in. I saw an acquaintance recently and while we were catching up, they reached out and touched me without giving me a heads up. Now, I’ve kind of always hated being touched… Continue reading how to be friends with a survivor

why I’m done dating for the time being

A few weeks ago I got dumped (for the second time in a year). You know what makes it worse? We were never official. He was just a man that I really liked and we slept together enough times for me to confuse lust with feelings deeper than like. Today we had a long conversation… Continue reading why I’m done dating for the time being

an open letter to Jonny and Mali

Dear Jonny and Mali, I can’t thank y’all enough for using your platform to push accurate information about the COVID-19 vaccine. As the live stream continued, y’all shared your own experiences about your hesitancy to get the vaccine, the feeling of standing in line and being oddly comforted by the amount of people you saw,… Continue reading an open letter to Jonny and Mali

Something to cheer about…

Today was a special day. It actually has nothing to do with the Inauguration!  Don't get me wrong now, I 100% cried when I saw Kamala Harris officially become the Vice President, but that is not why today was a special day. One year ago today, I made a decision to wait until marriage to… Continue reading Something to cheer about…